Hey Sister,
I see you. And here’s what I want you to know—you’re not alone in feeling alone. You’re not the only one who longs for connection but feels more comfortable watching from the sidelines. I get it. I’ve been there too.
Some of the loneliest seasons of my life have been the ones where I pulled away from community—sometimes without even realizing it. I thought I was protecting my heart, guarding myself against insecurity. But even in those quiet, withdrawn moments, God was speaking to me. And here’s the encouragement I want to share with you…
I’ve been loved and rescued by a God who has always existed in perfect community—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. And if I’m made in His image, then I was made for community too. The truth is, I miss out when I try to do life alone. The Church misses out when I stay on the sidelines. The people who need Jesus miss out when I shrink back. So, I don’t do it alone. Instead, I choose vulnerability, friendship, and the gift of walking alongside God’s people.
So, when you feel the urge to withdraw, lean in instead. When you hear that voice telling you you’re better off on your own, or that you’re too introverted for real connection, or that community is for a "later season" of life—speak truth over those lies.
I love the local Church. I love women’s conferences and good books. I’ve followed ministries online for years. But sister, hear me when I say—there is no substitute for the Body of Christ in real life. My soul finds rest when I’m surrounded by women who truly see me. I love worshiping alongside new moms at Mornings with HER on Wednesdays. My heart comes alive preparing for Bible study with other women. I grow deeper in my faith when I soak in the wisdom and faith of older women who’ve walked this road before me. And every single week, I look forward to the real, meaningful conversations that remind me—we are in this together.
I can say with confidence: life is better together. God’s design for His people is truly beautiful. Being social isn’t the same as being known, and I have never felt more deeply loved, joyfully served, or unconditionally accepted than when I’ve stepped into honest, life-giving community. My walk with Jesus is stronger because of the women around me.
So, sister, I want to invite you—step out from the sidelines. Every Wednesday morning beginning April 16th at 9:15AM, a room full of real, imperfect, but loving women will gather for the Spring season of Mornings with HER to worship Jesus, build Christ-centered friendships, and dive into the riches of God’s word studying Psalm 23… and we can’t wait to welcome you.
